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You are using an out of date browser. It may not display this or other websites correctly. You should upgrade or use an alternative browser. So I've been involved with the fandom for about 2 years now. I never gave much thought into it.
Until recently I started dating my mate to who my knowledge has pets. We have of course agreed to boundaries of his relationship with them. Still kinda foggy on it. He requested I give it a try either being a pet or master and I don't know how I feel about that just yet.
Just trying to get some insight. Those who are master and pets please explain to my the dynamic of this relationship. Distorted Active Member. Edit: Get out while you still can.
Distorted said:. Chuchi Where'd the time go?
I used to be a pet. When it was good, it was great. I absolutely loved him, nigh unconditionally.
In retrospect, shit was kinda pathetic. But he was really good to me. Bought me gifts, helped me in times of need, so I understand why I loved him. But then he must have gotten tired of me and I was generally pushed aside and ignored.
He had a new 'mate' so that took all his attention. And then circumstances arose and I fell out of contact with him. Oh my god, I fucking hate myself for saying this, but I kind of miss him sometimes. Sometimes I wish I could go back to him, just to talk, at least to thank him for the good he did for me. But he hates me now. And I kinda hate him.
So it's better that way. If it works, it works. But it usually doesn't. As far as the dynamic goes, it's what it sounds like. One is the master, one is the pet. How that works exactly depends on what one's interpretation of those words is. I know he had a sexual relationship with 2 of them.
And when we got together he immediately told them that they could no longer do that sort of stuff. Which makes me happy. Because Master pet relationship not by any means wanting a open relationship. I do know one pet left because of the "attention" thing or lack of since I came into the picture. And another pet he "left" because it's turned out she was in love with him. He told me he doesn't plan on taking any pets. Pinky said:. Ayattar Banned Banned.
Mate Master Pet My genocide button is being pushed. Ayattar said:. CaptainCool Lady of the lake. It's stupid. He is either in a relationship with you or with others. This isn't even a polyamorous relationship because you are not in a relationship with his "pets". It's like saying "Betty is my girlfriend!
Sure she fucks the mailman behind my back but she is my girlfriend! We're processing. We're trying to reach consensus.
As for now genocide is imminent. Gronix Catless Cat Lady. That's not even a bad idea, I could put my trusty whip to some use. Ozriel Inglorious Bastard. I've heard if it, and the definition of it is weird. Blah, blah, consenting adults, blah, blah, fuck. SkyboundTerror Thrashing About. If you're going to be a pet, be a cat - give zero shits about your master, take their food and gifts, and occasionally return the favor by breaking their stuff and sleeping on top of their television set.
But, it's okay because you're fluffy. If you can't get behind being a cat, go reptile. You get all of the same perks except you don't have to break stuff every now and then, though a violent outburst when someone tries to touch you is required. That's as good as it gets. I'm the cat's pet. Sarcastic Coffeecup Hand. Fermata Hemi-demi-semi-quaver.
No thanks. Same goes for daddy doms and their """""""daughters"""""". I'm no kink-shamer, I think its healthy and fine for people to do whatever the fuck they want as long as its not actively hurting somebody, but i can't see how such a strong power imbalance can be a fulfilling relationship. SkyboundTerror said:.
Bonobosoph 4 hands good 2 hands bad .
Bonobosoph said:. Fernin rpm and spinning. You want my advice? Find somebody local whose been in the scene for a while, or at the very least someone online who has. Preferably someone older, mature, and OUTSIDE the furry fandom because this fandom has one of the most twisted and toxic understandings of the matter I've ever seen.
BadRoy The sloth is back. The master has their fun being 'the one in charge' and the pets enjoy being subjugated and told what to do. I can definitely see the attraction.
But if the pet and master talk out-of-character and decide they legitimately like each other that's great. Hachiro I'm SeckZ and Frii. Hachiro said:. I think my mind isn't quite open to look at that in an ok way, 'cause it's like your partner is getting something from another person that he can't get from you.