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Jump to content. Several functions may not work. Posted 02 March - AM. I'm really curious to know how people keep track of theirs, if they do. For now Papa and I made a poster for my Princess Points based on three : rules, behavior and tasks.
I'm also curious to know how your systems work. Like I said, mine is based on rules, behavior and tasks. I win half points for behavior and I actually don't know why Papa decided that. I should ask him. Rules are if I followed the rules that day. And tasks are if I completed the tasks Papa gives me to his satisfaction. We don't ddlg rewards a rewards system.
I have chores that I'm supposed to do and sometimes I get special chores that Mr asks me to complete before he gets home from work right now, I don't work, but hopefully that'll change soon! I also am not punished, however.
If I don't complete a chore, it's likely because I was struggling that day and Mr won't punish me for that.
I totally get why other people have a system in place, though! I like looking at other people's charts and such.
Rules, punishments and rewards
You can call me Kit! I also answer to Autumn. We use to have a reward system based on household chores and stuff but not anymore but I do get special treats for being really good like ice cream before dinner! Loving God, life, all people, pink and my stuffies!!!! Belief in coexistence. Little life is a great life. You can find me and my Little des on etsy. Back to top 4 Kitten Kitten Advanced Member. I don't have a reward system, but Daddy and I are planning on using a sticker chart when we live together! Rewards could be things like going out for ice cream together, or a new plush.
Daddy loves to spoil me and it's difficult for me to not feel guilty, ddlg rewards I think feeling like I've earned it will make it easy for us both! Back to top 5 Bull Bull Master Brom. Posted 02 March - PM. At the end of the year, I display all the chart information on an infographic and compare it to the year before! I'm gonna show it to Papa if you don't mind. I think that I would really benefit from something more structured like this.
I do love the idea of a points system though. Like one with little weekly rewards and then maybe a bigger reward at the end of the month. While I don't necessarily agreeing with bribing to get a little to have good behavior, I also realize that it encourages the little to do their best and gives them something to work for and look forward to.
Yeah, for us the points system is about measuring my behavior, not bribing me to do well. I like that I'm proving to Papa that I'm doing well, but he isn't bribing me to behave. He is, like you said, encouraging me to do my best and giving me something to work towards. It helps me because I like to have goals and things to focus on. But I get what you mean by the idea of bribing. I don't know like maybe something off my princess wish list if I earned enough points over time.
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Papa talked about having little prizes and big prizes. I thought about a weekend away for a big prize but Papa said we were gonna do that anyway because HE was rewarded at work for being the best employee of the quarter and he gets a four day weekend coming up in a couple months. But little things would be like new crayons or something like that.
But Papa also spoils me anyway so I dunno. We definitely have to talk about it! It's a cute system, and it's something I'd have to ask daddy about.
It seems like it would also be a good thing to do, so you don't end up spoiling someone too much. Meds is the only thing I forget sometimes, but when I think about it, I take them. So I think that would just end up being a take my pills chart.
Posted 03 March - PM. This is a new rule and hasn't happened yet, but it helped me not smoke today, so I have high hopes to introduce him to big hero 6 this weekend! Omg, thats so cute and such a nice reward!
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Posted 05 March - PM. Here's one that my brother and my bro-in-law uses! I think it's really clever. He can use the marbles to earn stuff like a new toy or even disney tickets. The on the right shows how many marbles it's worth.
Posted 06 March - AM. I don't get rewards. I don't need them.
I'm completely self motivated. I play the "matriarch" of my family.
If I suddenly "stopped" or didn't do my chores, important services to my family would stop and my family would risk falling apart. Perhaps later on, when I have more money and a less stressful schedule, me and my daddy can implement a rewards system.
However, as long as I have my own debit card, two jobs, and too much to do to sweat treating myself, I'm probably not going to need a rewards system. Posted 06 March - PM. Posted 07 March - AM. I'm a little bit weird, I have a progress chart without the rewards system.
I made it myself since my relationship with my online Daddy is mostly sexual. I also have chronic depression which is really kicking my butt lately, so being able to see my progress is really important for my mental health.
This is my most recent week, the second week since I started. Posted 20 March - PM. Posted 16 April - PM. Posted 19 April - PM. It has a built in coin system. You can say how hard or easy it is to do something for you personally and it'll give you more or less coins based on ddlg rewards. It lets you make your own rewards and stuff and how much they are for. Like when you do good things, you get eggs and hatching potions so you can get pets and stuff. It really really helps me stay on task. This is what it looks like.
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Posted 02 March - AM We don't have a rewards system. Posted 02 March - AM We use to have a reward system based on household chores and stuff but not anymore but I do get special treats for being really good like ice cream before dinner! Posted 02 March - AM I don't have a reward system, but Daddy and I are planning on using a sticker chart when we live together!
RockzbrattyDarling, Karmelitanka, BashfulAshful and 1 other like this. Posted 02 March - PM I have a very detailed reward system for my girl!